I found the writing to be fun, but not side-splitting funny like some reviews claim. I enjoyed it because I am close to my sister and understand a world where two sisters can find something humorous where others might think they are kooky. That's how this read to me, so I can understand why other readers might be a little put-off by it.
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You sometimes feel like you are on the outside of an inside joke. The other thing I felt was that these were two women who speak in public a lot and their book reads like a transcribed speech at times. Some people are talented public speakers but not so great at the writing thing. I didn't mind it, though, as I just pretended I was hearing them speak the book to a crowd of a hundred people and it made it flow better. The content of this book was what I wanted- two women telling their stories about their journey through the special needs world.
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There weren't any great fountains of advice on how to deal with anything, and they very clearly do not claim to offer them. It seems their purpose is to just open the dialogue by being transparent and opening their lives to whomever wants a glance. They want other parents on the roller coaster know that they are not alone.
I really think the book is more a supplement to their true passion, the Movement of Imperfection, and their speaking gigs. It's another tool they use to get the conversation going, but I do not think the book is supposed to stand alone as a resource for parents of children with special needs. What they do offer is advice from others who are specialists and a list of resources mainly websites where parents can go for more information and support.
This to me validates my idea that they don't want to claim to give advice, they leave that to people that have the education and experience. All they bring to the table is a sympathetic ear and an offer of kinship. And, for those of us not in their group, some insight on their struggles and how we as a society can be more understanding. I would recommend this book for people like me who want some insight into some people in pain to whom we could all be a bit more sensitive. I tentatively recomment this book to parents with kids of special needs but cannot do that without any authority because I have no idea whether it would be helpful or not.
While I think these sisters are courageous for sharing their story and trying to make it lighthearted through sarcasim, I have mixed feelings about this book.
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Once I got to about the middle of the book I did start to find the information they shared from Dr. LeeAnn Karg While I think these sisters are courageous for sharing their story and trying to make it lighthearted through sarcasim, I have mixed feelings about this book. LeeAnn Karg informative and very helpful. But again, at that point I thought about putting the book down and going directly to Dr.
When I finally got to the chapters with general 'tips' that any parent of a special needs child could relate to like discussing IEP's and working with schools and doctors, etc, those parts I found very helpful. I did think the ending of the book was great. I liked hearing how the family members viewed the situations specifically the daughters and what they learned as well as what the authors learned so far in their journey with special needs kids. I do appreciate the authors writing honestly and candidly about their feelings as they struggled at the low points and celebrated the high points in their lives.
And their final message about learning to accept and appreciate the beauty these special kids bring to the world. I have to give this wonderful book five stars. I will admit that this is one I have read many times before. Gina and her sister Patty have done a wonderful job not only sharing their stories of living with "imperfect" children but also coping mechanisms, where to look for help and simply something every parent of an imperfect child needs As a parent of not one but two imperfect children my third is not perfect per se but thank goodness "normal" at the very least I often find myself in I have to give this wonderful book five stars.
As a parent of not one but two imperfect children my third is not perfect per se but thank goodness "normal" at the very least I often find myself in the same predicaments that the authors are. But this book is not just for the parent of an imperfect child but also anyone who has a imperfect child in their life somehow grandparents, aunts, uncles, friends etc as it really clues the reader in to what life with an imperfect child is like.
I also urge anyone reading this book to check out the facebook page "Shut Up About Your Perfect Kid" for even more imperfection and support. May 11, Karen rated it liked it. This gets a three based on the subject and the authors intentions. I'm sure their characterization of the way IEP meetings are run and the careless way they were treated by the education system felt real to them. It's not that way everywhere though and all the topics they address very widely based on medical providers and school systems. Unfortunately, the people who might benefit most from this book, parents first finding out that their children have problems and their friends families and nei This gets a three based on the subject and the authors intentions.
Unfortunately, the people who might benefit most from this book, parents first finding out that their children have problems and their friends families and neighbors are unlikely to read it. I do appreciate the effort to make the topic of children with special needs more accessible. Anything that might get one more family member or friend to be understanding and helpful instead of ignoring the problem and backing away is appreciated.
It is true that often people feel so awkward around differently abled children that isolation for them and their families is a huge problem Content - Don't let the title turn you off - it doesn't reflect the content of the book. A great book for parents with special needs kids. Even though they address autism and bipolar specifically, it is not just for parents that have kids with those particular disorders.
It's for parents of kids with any kind of disorder and their family and friends.
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As a parent of a child with bipolar I felt the book was quite realistic - both in the fact that they didn't whitewash anything and in the fact that Content - Don't let the title turn you off - it doesn't reflect the content of the book. As a parent of a child with bipolar I felt the book was quite realistic - both in the fact that they didn't whitewash anything and in the fact that they are hopeful.
Mechanics - for the most part the writing was humorous and had a good, strong voice. Feb 10, Tracy rated it it was amazing. Just loved this book, it was funny, simple to read from this mom's veiw , not a textbook - so loved that!.
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It also had helpfull information that I could really use in it as well. I will be following these sisters to see if they write another book, and in line to get it if they do! For this mom of a Autistic girl, it is WAY up there on must read books, for a number of reasons. I am going to be giving this one to some family member for Christmas, hopefully they can see my family in a whole new wa Just loved this book, it was funny, simple to read from this mom's veiw , not a textbook - so loved that!.
I am going to be giving this one to some family member for Christmas, hopefully they can see my family in a whole new way after reading it: May 02, Sarah rated it really liked it. Anyone who feels worn out by both the high expectations of modern parenting and the very serious demands of raising a special needs child should read this lighthearted book. Although I personally did not find the writing style very funny, I really appreciate what these authors are trying to do in raising awareness and acceptance through humor.
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As the mother of a special needs kid, I know that their message that it's OK to have completely different goals for our kids is extremely important in our Anyone who feels worn out by both the high expectations of modern parenting and the very serious demands of raising a special needs child should read this lighthearted book. As the mother of a special needs kid, I know that their message that it's OK to have completely different goals for our kids is extremely important in our overly competitive society.
I hope they keep spreading the word. Sep 13, Jackie rated it it was amazing. This book is awesome - just like the ladies who wrote it! They share the story of their imperfect kids - a story many of us can so well relate to. Friends - read this book and join their page on facebook. It's like free daily therapy!! Feb 14, Pamela rated it liked it Recommends it for: Parents of special needs kids just learning the ropes of IEPs.
This was really a good book. It could bring tears to my eyes in once paragraph, and then the next I'd be laughing out loud. I didn't really learn much from it, since I've been on the special needs roller coaster for almost 13 years now.
The reason I only gave it 3 stars is because most of the information was old news to me. I would highly recommend this book to parents just starting out on the special education adventure. Lots of good info in it about IEPs, for those that are new to them.
As a mom in the early stages of getting a diagnosis for our 8 year old son, I've been reading a lot of books about his condition s. I use humor to cope so that made this book a nice reprieve from more factual texts. The humor does feel forced at times, but the emotions are right on. May 07, Heather Flynn rated it really liked it. This book really helped me when my son was first diagnosed with ADHD. It helped me realize that there were so many other things to worry about than if this was from bad parenting.
I highly recommend this book for anyone who has a child that has been diagnosed, or even if you suspect that your child has special needs of some kind. This was a great read for all parents and educators! The two authors open up to share their triumphs and struggles along their path while raising children with disabilities. Heartwarming and informative, I highly recommend this book! Apr 13, Deborah J. Dealing with the ups and downs of a child with ADHD myself it was really nice to read the experiences of these sisters, who each have a special needs child of their own, and know I am not alone.
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